While watching network newscasts recently, I’ve notice a substantial amount of reports focusing on those who call themselves “Christians”. Most of the time, the reports are not very flattering. More often than not, they cast a negative perspective on the religion. First of all, let me express my views on those who call themselves “Christians”. I have never felt comfortable and for that matter, worthy to call myself a Christian. I draw my view from the scriptures which tell us that the disciples were first called Christians at Antioch. Please notice that they were called Christians by those who were not. They didn’t say, “Hello, I’m Paul and I’m a Christian”, they were called Christians. The word itself simply means “Christ like”. So my stance has never been to introduce myself as a Christian but rather let my walk, speech and actions prove out what I am. If I carried myself like Paul, others would call me a Christian as they did him.
I follow a lot of those who claim to be “Christians” on social media. Some of those I would have no problem calling them Christians while I wouldn’t be so quick to do the same for others. What I believe troubles Christians as a whole is what I have chosen for the topic of this work, “Lost Love.”
I’ve witnessed it on the news and in social media where those who claim to be Christians are constantly putting others down. This would apply to other Christians as well as the world. While it is true that we (as followers of Christ), are in the world and not supposed to be of the world and that the servant of the Lord does not bear the sword in vein, I believe we focus too much on condemning and not enough on love.
Now to back up my point, let us remember what our Lord said, “A new commandment I give unto you, that ye should love one another; as I have loved you, that ye also love one another.” John 13:34. We see the Ten Commandments posted at many churches and other places throughout our travels yet you do not see this New Commandment from our Lord. Not taking away anything at all from the Ten Commandments but we should always remember that they were in fact issued under the law. We are not under the law in this age but rather, we are under Grace. This New Commandment was issued under the law by the Lord Himself, in person and in the flesh. Let us look now at 1 John 4:8; “He that loveth not knoweth not God; for God is love.” There’s no dancing around this one, “GOD IS LOVE”. The scripture is also plain in that if you do not love, you do not know God. We could delve deeper into the support of this point but I think it has been sufficiently proven.
Many of the statements that I have read in social media by those professing to be of Christ carry the insinuation that if you do this or that, you are not a Christian or you haven’t really been saved. Some have even gone as far as to say that “Jesus doesn’t work like that.” I would caution one to be careful when traveling down this path as there usually is more harm than good done when this road is traveled. Now just to remind us, we are the creation and not the Creator. The Creator works and does as He pleases not per the requirements or limits that we place upon Him. Yes, we may say that we have the Bible to back us up but if the Holy Spirit hasn’t opened your understanding to the meaning of the particular scripture, you are leaning to your own understanding and heading for error.
I heard it said that we were only commissioned to be “fishers of men” not cleaners. According to the scriptures this is true. We are to fish but Christ reserves the task of cleaning the catch for Himself. I think we being the creature often believe we have more authority than what was actually granted us by the Creator. Nowhere in the scriptures does He grant us permission or authority to be “cleaners of men.” Many years ago on the streets of a small town in Georgia, a drunk stumbled up to an old preacher and said, “Brother, you saved me last year.” The old preacher looked him over and said, “Yep, you look like some of my work.” The moral here is we have no saving power, which belongs to Christ only. If a person is saved, God for Christ’s sake, through the Holy Ghost, does the work. We often here folk say, “I led him to Christ”, or “He led me to Christ”. I caution again to be careful with this statement as well since it can give place for the devil to sneak in and cause you to be puffed up. Christ may have utilized you in reaching someone but if they came to Christ, they were drawn by the Holy Ghost. Remember, no man comes to the Father but by the Son and no man comes to the Son unless the Father draws Him.
There have recently been those reported in the news media that profess to be Christians, found on the streets of our nation protesting. Some of the signs they have displayed are very offensive and would cause a non-Christian to run as far away as they could. I have seen some that even go as far as to say that God hates…(certain groups of people). They even disrupt funeral services of our fallen military heroes. This is totally contrary to the teachings of the Bible yet they insist that their view comes from the Bible. We often hear that we should hate the sin and love the sinner. I agree with this statement but the problem is, this appears to be very hard for the natural or carnal man to do. It is not a problem for God. He SO loved the world that He gave His only begotten Son a ransom for all. This means that He gave His Son for the vilest of sinners. Remember the words of William Cowper from the great Hymn “There is a Fountain”? Cowper writes, “And there have I, though vile as he, washed all my sins away.” Now Cowper is speaking of the thief who died alongside Christ on the cross. As far as I know Cowper was never in his entire life reported to be a thief yet he writes, “though vile as he”. That is the view each of us need to utilize when we see ourselves. So we can say that we hate the sin and love the sinner but we ourselves are sinners and often think ourselves better than the ones we consider sinners. The plain simple truth is, we are all sinners. It don’t matter what your church status, education, occupation or anything else may be, you are still a sinner. The difference is there are sinners and there are sinners saved by Grace. The latter is on their way to heaven while the former is on their way to hell.
This state that we have allowed ourselves to get in as a religion must be changed! We see our church attendance dwindling constantly (although there are a few exceptions were Churches stand on love as the first commandment), for the most part, the church themselves are driving folk away. We as a whole are weak, we are sickly, and we are diseased. What is the answer, what is the remedy? The answer and remedy are one in the same, Jesus. For if we love one another as Christ loves us, we would not be tearing one another down. This applies to sinners saved by Grace and just plain sinners! If you see a brother or sister walking in a way that you believe is contrary to the will of God, don’t go talk about them or post things on social media. All you need to do is pray for them. God already knows whether or not they are walking in His will and really, He is the only one who knows. You see we that are in the flesh have our views on the will of God but God just doesn’t have a view, He knows. Don’t you see? When our Lord was nailed to the old rugged cross He prayed, “Father forgive them for they know not what they do.” He was speaking to His disciples, to the Jews and He even prayed for those who drove the nails and they were pagan by nature. We are to love one another as He loves us.
Now this is where I have to keep a close eye on myself. Christ even loved and prayed for the ones who hurt Him there on Golgotha that day. When I think of those who have hurt me and my family, (especially those who profess to be followers of Christ), I really have a hard time loving them as Christ loves me. You probably have that same issue. Now this I have found. The closer we stay to Jesus, the easier this becomes. The more of ourselves we allow to be tied up with the weeds of this world, the harder it is to keep this New Commandment that He gave us. I have also found that when we think we are helping someone by condemning them, most of the time we are doing more harm than good. Remember that Christ said that the world was condemned already.
1 Timothy 1:5; “Now the end of the commandment is charity out of a pure heart, and of a good conscience, and of faith unfeigned.” So the new commandment or if you will, the first commandment is to love as He loves us and the end of the commandment is charity which is give to those in need. What is the need, why of course it is love. If you have been born again, you felt that unconditional love that God had for you and you felt it for everyone else. In fact you wanted everyone else to have the same joy and comfort that you received. As we travel down life’s pathway, many are the trials and storms we encounter. It is the devil’s mission to hinder us from keeping Christ’s commandment of loving each other as He loves us and satan is good at his job. We would do well to examine ourselves and see if we really love one another as He loves us or have we let the tempter puff up our minds to thinking we are above other sinners? Let’s be honest with ourselves for God already knows. Have we lost our love? Remember Revelation 2:4; “Nevertheless I have somewhat against thee, because thou hast left thy first love.”

